F.y.i., this is taken from:
http://www.kabbalah.com/tuneups/011708.html?cid=20080117a
"While the kabbalists are all about treating everyone with human dignity, it doesn't mean we have to live in dysfunctional relationships. Sometimes we do need to show people the door, albeit politely.
How can we be sure we are doing the right thing? Maybe saying goodbye is just shirking responsibility. How do we know?
Write down all the attributes of the person. Would you feel a void if that person was no longer in your life? Is this a situation you can change or can you help the other person to change? If the answer is yes, and it is worth the effort, then go for it. Tackle the challenge.
... Otherwise, maybe it's time to have that talk".
her answer was - a "no"...
a void, once felt on his absence, was not felt, anymore...
and so - that "he" is - NOT (for her)
... she recons... it feels good to know...
:-)
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... it isn't a "no" for "no void" (that is necessary, and natural, that once one goes, he, or she, leaves an empty place in one's heart), but it is a "no" for no possibility for change of situation, nor of person. And - it is good that way, I believe... you say?
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